Anywayyyyyyyy .......... As most people my age will of started to notice, the rose tinted glasses that you used to wear as a child are now failing and, we are starting to see the world, people, life and circumstances for what they really are. I fully believe this is why most people my age start to become a little more grumpy about certain things and we develop the Peter Pan syndrome. It isn't fun growing up and having most things in life start to really annoy you. So on this wonderfully cheerful note I am going to start with some of my pet hates in life and tell you why I hate them so much!
Number 1: 14 year old kids talking about being in love and sex! THIS! I can not begin to explain how much I hate seeing on my Facebook little kids talking about how they want a man to commit and be their "Bae". Some even go on to say how they want their "man" to treat them in bed. I mean seriously! It makes my skin crawl. Firstly it is illegal you little morons. Secondly your boyfriend isn't a man because if he was he should be locked away in prison Lets just be clear he is a little boy. Thirdly why are you talking as though you are 25 and experienced every bad date imaginable when you are so young. Fourthly you have years to find the right person to actually be in love with but you are so young that your new boyfriend of 2 weeks isn't going to be your soul mate. I really don't understand the generation gap its only 7 years difference and the fact that the most important thing to me when I was 14 was wether I looked Emo enough to go Church Street, compared to 14 year olds now talking about how they deserve a nice guy/girl to treat them well and commit. The whole of Britain is going to be filled with 17 years old with push chairs instead of an education at this rate!!!
Number 2: Fake friendships! I don't even need to go into to details about this as it is pretty self explanatory. I really don't know how at this age and older people can keep on with a friendship that is just all fake. I have to deal with enough crap in life now I am growing up I don't need fake friendships to add on top of that. Honestly if you are getting older and you have a that "friend" who you bitch about all the time and you don't really want to talk to them then just STOP! It is as simple as that.
Number 3: Dick Measurers!!! Those imbeciles that think it is a competition to see who has done better. Don't get me wrong there is nothing wrong with blowing your own trumpet and being proud of things you have done and achieved but if I tell you that I have done some charity work I don't then need to know that you climbed everest and raised a million pounds for 5 different charities then gave your lung to a child in need. Life isn't a competition and I certainly don't care if you think you have done better than me in something! Chances are you have but I am happy for me in that moment and I am not telling you to show off but because I am happy for me.
Number 4: Kiss asses ........ There is always that one person who is so far up someones ass they can nearly see the light of day again! To me their is nothing more fake than kiss asses and brown nosers! Don't get me wrong in college I was a bit of a teachers pet but mainly because I treated my tutors as equals instead of my teacher and had a laugh with them. BUT! Those people that agree with everything you do say and be are just ridiculous! Its normally one of these people that is most likely get far in life through being a kiss ass that you want to slap silly! If you want to kiss my ass then you can kindly do one!
Number 5: People that judge someone on the way they look! As you know from this blog I am a firm believer in loving yourself and not judging other people. It is easily one of my biggest pet hates when I hear women bringing other women down. Yes it is in a woman's nature to say things like "oh my god what is she wearing" but why on earth should we bring someone down for the way they look. Who gave any one person the right to judge someone else on the way they look?! It is absolute bullshit. Instead of girls and guys raising each other up and setting example we bring each other down to make us feel better about ourselves. I could talk for hours about this subject! I think it is getting worse for the younger generations .... I honestly think that if I was 14 and back in school with how I looked back then, that my school life would of been a lot harder and I would of been bullied a lot more than I was when I was at school. Younger people are more mean than ever and when they don't understand someone or the way they look they can be so horrible that it frightens me a little! It really is something that needs to change!
SOOOOOO! These are just a few of my many pet hates! I could be here all night talking about them all but because life isn't all doom and gloom I am going to end this blog post with a few things that I love about life!
Number 1: Kind and Helpful people! It is rare to find such a gem in a sea of ass holes and cocky pricks that when you do find someone that is genuinely kind, respectful, helpful and fun you need to hold onto them and keep them in your life.
Number 2: The power of music! I could not live life without music! I love to sing at the top of my lungs to all different types of music and to dance around the room like an absolute weirdo. Music has the ability to make you laugh, make you cry, make you happy and make you feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. To me music is the best therapy!
Number 3: Inspirational people! Those people who do something or say something that is so powerful that it moves you Those that defy all logic and those that conquer their inner demons. Those that strive towards their personal best instead of someone else's ideal. People that never ask for recognition for something that deserves it. So many people with amazing stories that make you think about who you are as person and what you can do better in life. I love nothing more than reading something that blows my mind and makes me grateful for what I have in life.
Number 4: Justin Bieber ............ I'm not going to lie to anyone! I am a Belieber! I'm not even ashamed to say it! His number album is played of repeat and if you have a problem with that then I DON'T CARE!
Number 5: Having my mum as a best friend! My mum is my best friend and I thank God for her everyday! I am so close to my mum and she knows me better than I know myself. We can cry laughing, tell each other secrets, have a gossip, be beyond stupid with each other, make rude jokes, know when the other needs cheering up, have a good cry to each other, moan at each other and read each others minds at times. I wouldn't have it any other way and I am so grateful to the relationship I have with my mum! I love you mum!
On that note I am going to bid you all a very fond farewell!
Lots of Love,
Katie aka Fat and Fabulous x